{"id":1678,"date":"2008-08-13T04:08:00","date_gmt":"2008-08-13T04:08:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/reginarobertson.com\/rrrsite\/2008\/08\/13\/not-quite-sure-what-to-say\/"},"modified":"2017-06-08T18:24:04","modified_gmt":"2017-06-08T18:24:04","slug":"not-quite-sure-what-to-say","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/reginarobertson.com\/rrrsite\/not-quite-sure-what-to-say\/","title":{"rendered":"not quite sure what to say."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_Ganpv4uqD0Y\/SKJjvHhOH_I\/AAAAAAAAALU\/9yfC1p810-I\/s1600-h\/images-5.jpeg\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5233855378081325042\" style=\"float: left; margin: 0 10px 10px 0; cursor: hand;\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_Ganpv4uqD0Y\/SKJjvHhOH_I\/AAAAAAAAALU\/9yfC1p810-I\/s200\/images-5.jpeg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Life.<\/p>\n<p>Just <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s fleeting and frustrating and beautiful and stressful and confusing and enlightening. Most of all, it&#8217;s short and unpredictable.<\/p>\n<p>For some odd reason, I always seem to have a delayed reaction to sad news. Maybe it&#8217;s a coping mechanism, maybe it&#8217;s denial. As I sit here watching the tribute to Bernie Mac on <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Larry King Live<\/span>, I think it&#8217;s finally hitting home for me that a family has lost a husband, father, grandfather. His work will live on on DVD, of course, but the reality is that he&#8217;s gone.<\/p>\n<p>The same goes for Isaac Hayes. What a talent. What a trailblazer, a risk-taker. I was listening to <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">Walk on By<\/span> this afternoon and felt the same sense of sadness that I now feel for Bernie, days after their untimely deaths.<\/p>\n<p>When you&#8217;re a kid &#8211; a teenager, even &#8211; you think that 40 is old. Anybody older than <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">that <\/span>is basically ancient. As you mature and get to into the rhythm of your own life, you realize that 40 is just 39 + 1. Bernie was only 50. That ain&#8217;t old. Neither is 65, like Isaac was. I guess the great thing about their lives is that they actualized their dreams and showed up &amp; delivered, every single time.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps that&#8217;s what this journey is really all about anyway.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Life. Just life. &nbsp; It&#8217;s fleeting and frustrating and beautiful and stressful and confusing and enlightening. Most of all, it&#8217;s short and unpredictable. For some odd reason, I always seem to have a delayed reaction to sad news. Maybe it&#8217;s a coping mechanism, maybe it&#8217;s denial. As I sit here watching the tribute to Bernie&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/reginarobertson.com\/rrrsite\/not-quite-sure-what-to-say\/\" class=\"\" rel=\"bookmark\">Read More &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">not quite sure what to say.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2751,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","_ti_tpc_template_sync":false,"_ti_tpc_template_id":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/reginarobertson.com\/rrrsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1678"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/reginarobertson.com\/rrrsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/reginarobertson.com\/rrrsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reginarobertson.com\/rrrsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reginarobertson.com\/rrrsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1678"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/reginarobertson.com\/rrrsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1678\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2754,"href":"https:\/\/reginarobertson.com\/rrrsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1678\/revisions\/2754"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reginarobertson.com\/rrrsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2751"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/reginarobertson.com\/rrrsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1678"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reginarobertson.com\/rrrsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1678"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/reginarobertson.com\/rrrsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1678"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}